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About a month ago, I was talking to my inner voice about the idea of subconsciously wanting to “fix” people during the journaling time of Kaileen Elise’s A Year of You course.
You know the feeling…of wanting to help others see/learn something that is so clear to you, but they aren’t there. Even when you “know” and “feel” that if they could just see something differently it would be immensely positive for them (in your humble opinion haha!)
What came forth was fascinating.
I hope you enjoy and perhaps find some resonance.
I know I certainly needed to hear this.
It’s not your job to “fix” others-perhaps what you view as broken is carefully designed. Their job is to grow.
It’s like a flower. You can’t be blooming and look down at another flower and tell it to bloom. It’s its own journey to bloom.
Why take away that delight of blooming for them? Let them bloom when the conditions are right for them to bloom.
Think of flowers in the spring-you wouldn’t want all the flowers to bloom all at once. That would be overwhelming, and you’d lose the magic of watching them bloom individually.
Let each bloom in their season.
It’s not to say you can’t bloom-or shouldn’t.
Don’t feel you have to go back to being a bud-it’s impossible for a blooming flower to do so.
Be in the blooming.
Let that inspire others to want to bloom, too!
That’s all you can do after all.
You can bloom.
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An Intuition Love Note: The Wisdom of Letting Others Grow